Dear Jo , Tony was a man with that rare gift of having natural charisma which radiated from him in everything he did , even in situations which many would find difficult Tony could handle them with smile and a calming influence which is also very evident from the many comments from his family and friends . I and I know many around you have admired both yours and Tonys courage and strength of character since his illness began and especially in your last months together . A measure of a man is by those that will remember and talk of him after he passes away and Tony will be remembered and talked about by many for many years to come . Yours sincerely with deepest sympathy Ricky